I could feel my friend would like to reject the offer since she kept asking my decision. Is she waiting me to open mouth to reject? I don’t know. But I insist my though that waiting their working permit while hunting jobs. Depend on which offer me in advance. Thus, I feel I am not available to persuade her and ask her keep Positive thinking right now. I don’t want her go because of me. It will make me more burdens when we go over there. Then, I encourage her to re-think properly and convince her that I would respect her any decision although it will make me hurt. After that, I start to escape her. I didn’t find her to talk and didn’t want to listen her because I scare her answer to say “NO”.
After few days, I saw her left “hi” in Msn to me. I just ignored it. But I can sense the bad thing would be happened soon. I have to face the realistic. Yes, she told me her decision ultimately. I felt I could get ready to accept any answer from her. Yet, I get hurt and sad so much. I can’t control my tear falling down. Sorry to my friend, I cannot pretend didn’t happen anything at that moment. Of course, that is not right and wrong. That is her choice, she have her own reasons. But I also have my own emotion. Please let me go. At that moment, I really don’t want to see and listen her anymore.
There are a lot of considerations. However, I have to thanks for BOON. Due to some words from him, I have realized something and given me the courage to take the risk. I always said thanks for his scold and made up my mind. Last and no least, I still insisted to go although there are unstable political issued and my friend FKK.
Besides, I need to apologize to someone. In the whole long way, he never gives up to support me but i keep blaming him could not tell me the reasons and persuade me. Yup, he always takes it easy and thinking positive. He thought these would not happen at all whether what I worried. He only thought that I am thinking too much, worried too much. Without any reasons and solutions for my worried, I definitely could not be convinced. Anyways, i felt touch for him support all the ways.
Although i feel very hurt from my friend but i am also getting precious friendship from other friends. This is a good lesson in my life.
2010年3月30日星期二
2010年3月26日星期五
Updated working status
I keep waiting almost one month, we did not receive any news from Thailand yet. We are keeps asking the approval letter for making working permit in Malaysia. But they were only keep delaying. We have no working approximately 1 and half months since they required us to start work in 1st March. I really can not accept their efficient. I am very angry that they were keep asking us to start working early but they make us to keep waiting since we are promise to start work on 1st of March. I totally can not imagine their working efficient, even thought how they help us to get working permit in Thailand if we go over there to work. I confidence to say, our salary will be delay and delay again due to working permit could not be approve. How I can trust this company?
I definitely disappointed on their work and commitment. They only convince us to don’t worry but they are keeps doing nothing. How is the company developing?
I am very angry and disappointed right now. I feel that I seem have being cheated. But I really don’t know what I should to do? Who can give me advice? Do I need to keep waiting since I have waited 1 month? Should I give up no matter approval can get immediately? I LOST. I hate this thing occurred. I hate to face it. I know these emotion or moody can not solve any problem. Actually I know what my next step is but I only want to release my frustration here.
My friend asked me that we need to give her deadline? But I though it is no point to suggest this idea. Do you mean we just wait until the deadline give up and DIE HEART? In fact, from a rational point of view, I should not to wait and without doing anything here. I should go to looking for another job to prevent myself in case anything happen for Thailand offer. If I get other good offer, I no need to consider that offer any more and just reject them directly. I think this only the way what I can do. So she heard what i told. But in the other hand, I know she is re-thinking the offer right now.
However, I really don’t know should I accept the Thailand offer if I can not get other offer in this period? Tell honestly, I still want to try although I know that is irrational. Maybe we can not get the salary in the first few months are high rate.
I definitely disappointed on their work and commitment. They only convince us to don’t worry but they are keeps doing nothing. How is the company developing?
I am very angry and disappointed right now. I feel that I seem have being cheated. But I really don’t know what I should to do? Who can give me advice? Do I need to keep waiting since I have waited 1 month? Should I give up no matter approval can get immediately? I LOST. I hate this thing occurred. I hate to face it. I know these emotion or moody can not solve any problem. Actually I know what my next step is but I only want to release my frustration here.
My friend asked me that we need to give her deadline? But I though it is no point to suggest this idea. Do you mean we just wait until the deadline give up and DIE HEART? In fact, from a rational point of view, I should not to wait and without doing anything here. I should go to looking for another job to prevent myself in case anything happen for Thailand offer. If I get other good offer, I no need to consider that offer any more and just reject them directly. I think this only the way what I can do. So she heard what i told. But in the other hand, I know she is re-thinking the offer right now.
However, I really don’t know should I accept the Thailand offer if I can not get other offer in this period? Tell honestly, I still want to try although I know that is irrational. Maybe we can not get the salary in the first few months are high rate.